I think that if you are breaking up with someone because your interests have changed, you think in a very different way, you feel there are many blank spaces between the other person and you or you've grown apart, try and be considerate in ending the relationship. Think about how you would want the other person to act towards you in the same situation because It´s important not to hurt the other person.
I believe there are some good things we can do to break up someone:
· Be honest, tell the person what has changed and why.
· Be kind, (there is no need to be nasty - the person will feel hurt already) but not soft (don't get talked into going back with the person just to save his or her feelings).
· Don't get into blaming each other.
· Time it right, eg don't tell the person just when he or she is going through huge dramas such as exams or family problems.
· Continue to treat the other person with respect even after the relationship ends - you may end up remaining friends.
· Be prepared for the person to feel hurt, no matter how considerate you are, he or she will still feel hurt. You might feel sad that it's ended too.
I didn't have braking up with a person but a think that is importan learn to the person about this topic, many time the person are feel defeated for your girlfrien, but is bad because after brings things very bad.
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ReplyDeletei thing that think or see an other person while i be whith my girlfriend is normal that happened this, for me this is no problem becouse we are youngs and we have many experiences in life and this is a litle part of our life, we are prepere for the war of our future.
ReplyDeletethis topic is good learn for every parson becouse this case is frecuenly in the life with two person ,more in young.
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ReplyDeleteI think that of this if in my personal I have space, I should fill the space in my life, how through my joy
ReplyDeletethe things for that some relationship finish are sometimesare couses that don't have importance and so every time that any person want to finish any relation first this person have to thing too much time because we can't came back the time.
ReplyDeletehello dear teacher congratulations with your sucessfull personality. have courage for make wonder things and enjoy each thing you do.
ReplyDeleteIn occation the person that I love maybe broke the heart but whwn you have a confidense you can get up an continue whit your life for this reason when the person boke your heart you nor leave there you get up and continue whit your dreams!!!!
ReplyDeleteI think that in the relations always they exist or give him problems, but it must learn one to control them or handle them in order that the relation does not break. When the pair does not manage to control all these problems or disadvantages one gives what is called a breach of a relation. Often in a relation the pair gets bored and because of it the separation comes near, but when this happens the person must be nice with his pair and to say to him what already he does not feel for it, for which if it is not done of an agreeable form for his pair, she can hurt and to manage to be seen by a hatred of his pair and to be able to make it suffer. In conclusion one on having broken with his pair has to of behaving itself of a respectful, nice and direct form.
ReplyDeleteReyes Segura Ismael José 5to "C"
under this theme which I think is that when you have a relationship, you should keep in mind that there will be problems and obstacles for it. the couple must be aware of what happens daily newspaper and support at all times, when there are problems with difficulty trying to get ahead, that's what the love that unites us all the time. at the same time be reciprocal and to remember the conversation and talk about the problems when we are unemployed. what I think about breaking up with someone, is that not correct because it is a serious wound to the two people, in my case the break that I was sincere person and I have talked about what is happening and honestly I clarify what have done and did not work. and we finally ended up as normal people unpeeled and with a good friendship as if nothing had happened during this time, and live the quiet life. in romantic relationships is what I think we should be honest at all times and support on everything with love.
ReplyDeleteC.A. CARDONA CAÑAS, OTHONIEL ISAAC. 5TO. BACH. SECCIÓN 'C